Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 16, 2013 2:27 pm

mily.



These articles detail the serious damage done to children by parents watching porn on the internet.
[Get Rid of Porn Addiction Now]"... there are millions of adults who are addicted to pornography, but only 10 percent of them will admit to it. Moreover, 7 percent of families believe porn is one of the primary causes for family troubles; and (watching porn on the) Internet, which is one of the biggest sources for pornographic materials, now leads to 66 percent of divorces in the country.  This kind of addiction, like any kind of abuse, is something that should be put to a stop."

[Children as Victims]I will discuss the many ways that children are victimized by pornography.
  • Pornography hurts husband and wife relationships and breaks up marriages, which of course seriously impacts the children in the family. Only pain is in store for children with a father or mother hooked on pornography.
  • Internet pornography is often the first exposure that children and teens have to sexual images. This plants in them a twisted and perverse view of human intimacy that is difficult or impossible to weed out. These early learning experiences can lead to sexual deviancy and crime, and often negatively affect their future relationships and marriages.


Countless studies have proved conclusively that at the center of many of American society's most serious problems is the trend of families without fathers. Due to divorce or abandonment, an ever-increasing number of American homes are without fathers. The problems associated with a father's absence are myriad, certainly the topic of many other books.
But of equal calamity, and in far greater numbers, are the homes in America that have a father who is there physically but absent emotionally and spiritually; fathers who are moody, angry, physically and verbally abusive; fathers who say very little, seldom express their love verbally, rarely engage in casual, friendly conversation, and just seem to be living in their own little world.


Perhaps not surprising, most of the attributes I have just described are the same ones that manifest themselves when a father is hooked on or preoccupied with pornography. Now with the floodgates of porn thrown wide open by [the Internet], how many men will be consumed in front of their computer screen at the office or in the den at home when they should be interacting with their wives and children?


And when they are not in front of the porn screen, how fit will they be mentally and emotionally to love and care for their family? Pornography robs parents of [healthy] parental emotions. Internet pornography will accelerate the plight of "fatherless America" in a way never before witnessed in society. The incidence of fathers (and mothers) just "taking off" will increase, as will the divorce rate. And in more certain and terrifying numbers, fathers who are at home physically but absent emotionally and spiritually as a direct result of Internet porn will increase at an explosive rate.


As incredible as it may seem, there is also a growing trend toward a "motherless" America. More and more women are becoming addicted to Internet porn and cybersex chatrooms, and are found to be demonstrating many of the same behaviors and attitudes as men who are porn or cybersex addicts. This is wreaking an even greater devastation on children than the loss of a father to Internet porn. A woman, with her female brain and attributes is often better equipped to nurture and communicate with her children in ways that most men cannot. Indeed, her loss in the home is a tragedy of the highest proportions.

[Family Consequences of Viewing Pornography]
A. Impact on ChildrenThe impact of a parent's use of pornography on young children is varied anddisturbing. Pornography eliminates the warmth of affectionate family life, whichis the natural social nutrient for a growing child. Other losses and traumasrelated to the use of pornography when a child is young include:. encountering pornographic material a parent has acquired;. encountering a parent masturbating;. overhearing a parent engaged in "phone sex";. witnessing and experiencing stress in the home caused by online sexualactivities;. increased risk of the children becoming consumers of pornographythemselves;. witnessing and being involved in parental conflict;. exposure to the commodification of human beings, especially women, as"sex objects";. increased risk of parental job loss and financial strain;. increased risk of parental separation and divorce;decreased parental time and attention-both from the pornography addictedparent and from the parent preoccupied with the addictedspouse.3Also, parents may disclose their struggle with the addiction to pornography totheir children, intentionally or unintentionally, thereby distorting their children'ssexual development.4

[Daddy's internet secret]Now divorced, she is back on speaking terms with Greg after two years, but is still full of rage over what happened. "There's an attitude that internet porn is fine and acceptable; this is what men do and it doesn't harm anyone. But where does that leave me?How can they disregard the impact it has on others?"

[Is Internet Porn Addiction Destroying Your Life?]the major difference between internet pornography and what you find at a sex shop is that it is much more accessible since its right at your finger tips. That being said, it is much easier to watch and rapidly becomes a habit for many. This is a serious problem since it often leads to dependency making it almost impossible to quit on your own.Now there is more to it as well. When exposed to such types of materials, your brain reacts just the same way as if you would actually be involved in sexual activities. It releases tons of endorphins and neurochemicals which gives you a strong drive for sex. Doing this often can result in addiction which is the case for most people with porn.




[Husband Addicted to Porn ]
The wives who have to deal with broken marriages and broken children as a result of fathers viewing porn.




Porn Addiction and Child Custody in Divorces
 It is important to realize that a porn addict is not in control and may truly want to recover, while also recognizing that the addiction can have a dangerous effect on his (or her) behavior.
GoMizzou
SinceAug 28, 2006
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 16, 2013 3:41 pm

lol. i hope this was posted for its comedic value.

watching porn on the Internet, which is one of the biggest sources for pornographic materials, now leads to 66 percent of divorces in the country


and yet there has been no significant increase in divorce in this country since the rate hit 50% in the mid 80s, according to the stats i just looked at. now, since there was no internet porn back then, it's hard to conclude that internet porn is the scourge of marriage. a more likely conclusion is that it's the convenient target of blame for a marriage that was likely going to fail anyway. otherwise, i'm really having a hard time understanding how something responsible for two thirds of the divorces hasn't caused an increase in the overall rate.

this reminds me of jack van impe blaming all the problems of the modern world on rock and roll music.

FortheLulz
SinceSep 25, 2008
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 16, 2013 3:46 pm

ok, having seen and read your other porn thread now, i realize this was serious. so perhaps you'd like to address the issue i brought up.

 i'm really having a hard time understanding how something responsible for two thirds of the divorces hasn't caused an increase in the overall rate.

FortheLulz
SinceSep 25, 2008
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February 16, 2013 4:10 pm

If you want to follow the links in the other thread you can read the source material.  I highlighted their claim.  I believe there is a significant basis in the claim.  There was a huge leap in porn production beginning in the 50s, which exploded in the 60s.  Many went out to purchase and often hid the porn in various places in the homes during that time, to keep the children spouse from finding it   Now it isn't out in the open so to speak, it's kept on a file on a computer, or connected to remotely by a link.  There is a much more prevalent link than you may imagine, and people responding anonymously to questionaires are much more likely to be honest about their true practices.  The truth is, there IS a very serious connection between the use of porn, and difficulties in the marriage and family relationships.  To suggest otherwise is reqlly quite naive.
GoMizzou
SinceAug 28, 2006
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 16, 2013 4:23 pm

why hasn't internet availability of porn for free in virtually every home in the country led to an increase in the overall divorce rate?
FortheLulz
SinceSep 25, 2008
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February 16, 2013 5:36 pm

Because this article is nothing but bunk
utkipp1
SinceOct 9, 2006
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February 17, 2013 11:04 am

You're overrating the value of the article, kipp.
35yrMetsFan
SinceSep 25, 2007
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 17, 2013 1:26 pm

This was clearly written by a woman who has a hang up with porn, and caught her husband on the internet watching porn, and divorced him because he wouldnt go to counselling for it.
Don Keiballs
SinceFeb 10, 2013
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 17, 2013 5:12 pm

Worry about your damn self. 
SisterRay
SinceApr 21, 2009
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 17, 2013 8:00 pm

When did OAKLAND 89 start writing about porn?
steelers=sb
SinceOct 18, 2007
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 9:34 am

Worry about your damn self.


Can't......that's why he has to keep the focus on us.


I gotta question: How 'bout we just watch "sexually VAGUE" materials?Tongue out
Nova Cats
SinceJun 14, 2007
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 9:51 am

"sexually VAGUE"


....like the Japanese stuff....all fuzzy at critical "junctures"













or fuzzy junk....if you prefer
Nova Cats
SinceJun 14, 2007
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 10:29 am

You're overrating the value of the article, kipp.




Actually there are 7 titles of articles there.  Look for [ ] and the titles are there.
GoMizzou
SinceAug 28, 2006
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 10:34 am

Actually there are 7 titles of articles there.  Look for [ ] and the titles are there.

Why are you so afraid of seeing people having sex? 
PackJason3
SinceApr 22, 2009
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 10:35 am

Quit trying to sell us kiddie porn, MISSOURI
billyrific1
SinceJan 8, 2010
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 10:37 am

I don't understand. It sounds like he is saying porn is bad??????
NFL-Solomon
SinceMar 8, 2008
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 10:38 am

I don't understand. It sounds like he is saying porn is bad??????

Yeah, apparently ... what a weirdo! 
PackJason3
SinceApr 22, 2009
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Impact of se xually ex plicit materials on the fa

February 18, 2013 11:21 am

Why are you so afraid of seeing people having sex?  
He's probably Catholic.
steelers=sb
SinceOct 18, 2007
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February 18, 2013 4:02 pm

Eisemer Wolf is missed.

mad-dog111
SinceApr 25, 2010